Life is an extraordinary journey, full of ups and downs, immense joy and painful regrets…but I have found that most people, when asked if they’d actually go back and change anything, they initially laugh & begin to quickly process those defining moments across time…only to pause and say with somber wisdom in their voices, “Actually,…
I’m not typically one to choose a “word” for the upcoming year, because I have always been more reflective than anything else… During a time when most people are planning forward & hoping for what’s to come & confidently declaring their word, I’ve always struggled to understand the sentiment. *Don’t come for me* Through my…
I, like so many of you, was raised by a single mom. As a pre-teen, I also gained a bonus mom, who became a single mom as well, raising 3 of my younger brothers, so it comes as no surprise that single moms & their kiddos hold a special place in my heart, especially during…
Years ago, after a short interaction with another lady, my friend turned to me and said, “I love her to pieces…but she absolutely drains me sometimes.” I didn’t fully understand what she meant, at the time, but the thought lingered. Of course, I tend to overthink everything and I’m a chronic people-pleaser, so I obviously…
As I began typing this into our group text, I laughed out loud (Literally LOL’d!) because I knew that every woman in that group was going to open that ridiculously long essay & immediately laugh (& heavy sigh) as they read the words straight from my very long winded heart. (They know I always have…
As I am praying , studying and reading this morning, I cannot help but smile as I am reminded of God’s goodness. There have been so many tears around our home these past few days as we try to process the great loss of Mrs. Amanda, a beloved wife, mother, sister, friend and teacher, with…
This morning I noticed that I had several old entries in my drafts, so I wanted to clean it up. I came across this one and I’m not sure why I decided not to share it, but reading it again today has been such a blessing to me! I’ve weathered plenty of storms since I…
I don’t know which of these statements you need to hear, but I certainly need the reminder this week. It’s okay to go camping for the weekend, knowing that the house needs your attention. It’s okay to say no to attending multiple birthday parties on the same Saturday. It’s okay to sleep in whenever you…
I’ve struggled so much with how to title this entry. Is there even a good title for exposing such a heavy secret? The answer is no. Exposing darkness is never graceful or “fun”, because it’s a gruesome battle that challenges your every emotion. A battle of the mind, body, and spirit. It’s literally separating lies…